The 3 types of ejaculation problems (yes, 3!)

It's not uncommon to run into a problem with ejaculation, but most men don't realise there are three distinct types. It can be a frustrating experience, but the good news is that ejaculation issues are almost always treatable.

Here's what you need to know about the types, causes, and treatments for each one, plus how ejaculation problems can overlap with erectile dysfunction.

1. Premature ejaculation

What is premature ejaculation?

If a man ejaculates within about a minute of penetration, it's considered premature.^1,2 Another way to define it is by satisfaction. If you or your partner consistently feel unhappy with how long sex lasts, it's worth exploring your options for lasting longer in bed.

There's a common misconception that sex should last longer than it does. A large study of 500 couples across five countries found the median time from penetration to ejaculation was 5.4 minutes.³ So lasting a few minutes is nothing to worry about. But if you regularly lack control and climax sooner than you'd like, it's worth treating.

What causes premature ejaculation?

The root cause can be either psychological or physical.²

Physical causes include:

• Prostate problems, such as prostatitis (inflammation of the prostate)

• Thyroid problems (an overactive or underactive thyroid)

• Nerve problems

• Recreational drugs or prescription medication

• A naturally sensitive penis

Psychological causes include:

• Relationship issues

• Stress

• Depression

• Performance anxiety

• Guilt about sex, which can stem from a strict upbringing

• Fear of sex

• Early sexual experiences that encouraged quick ejaculation

• Sexual trauma

How to treat premature ejaculation

For a long-term fix, it helps to get to the bottom of what's causing it. In the meantime, there are several treatments that work.⁴ For some men whose premature ejaculation is psychological, short-term treatment restores the confidence they need to regain control.

Treatments include:

• Dapoxetine (premature ejaculation pills): a clinically proven treatment taken 1 to 2 hours before sex to help you gain control over ejaculation.

• More natural methods, such as the start-stop technique or Kegel exercises for men.

2. Delayed ejaculation

What is delayed ejaculation?

Also known as male orgasmic disorder, delayed ejaculation is when a man can't ejaculate for a long time, or at all, despite wanting to.² If you're often unable to ejaculate during sex, or you regularly last 30 to 60 minutes, you may have delayed ejaculation.

What causes delayed ejaculation?

Delayed ejaculation can be physical or psychological.²

Physical causes include:

• Pelvic nerve injury

• Urinary tract infection

• Birth defect

• Hormone deficiencies, such as hypothyroidism (low thyroid hormone) or hypogonadism (low testosterone)

• Diabetes

• Prostate or bladder surgery

• Spinal cord injury

• Multiple sclerosis

• Neurological conditions

• Older age

• Medications, such as antidepressants, blood pressure medication, muscle relaxants, painkillers, or diuretics

• Recreational drugs or heavy alcohol use

Psychological causes include relationship problems, anxiety or depression, stress, early sexual trauma, and a strict upbringing.

How to treat delayed ejaculation

The best treatment depends on the cause:

• If it's psychological, a sex therapist can help you work through any trauma or past experience behind it.

• If it's linked to your relationship, talk to your partner and consider couples therapy.

• If it's a side effect of medication, speak to your doctor about alternatives. Don't stop taking prescribed medication until you're told it's safe to do so.

• If it's linked to alcohol or drugs, your GP or a charity can support you to cut down.

3. Retrograde ejaculation

What is retrograde ejaculation?

Retrograde ejaculation is the least common of the three, but it affects some men. Normally, semen travels out through the urethra. With retrograde ejaculation, it travels the wrong way, back into the bladder.²

The warning signs are producing little or no semen despite orgasm, or cloudy urine after sex. It isn't harmful or painful, and it doesn't affect your ability to orgasm, but it can cause problems with fertility.

What causes retrograde ejaculation?

Unlike premature and delayed ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation is a physical condition with no psychological triggers. It happens when the muscle that normally tightens to keep semen out of the bladder doesn't work properly.²

Causes include:

• Surgery on the prostate or bladder.

• Medication, such as some treatments for high blood pressure, an enlarged prostate, or depression.

• Nerve damage, which can be linked to diabetes, multiple sclerosis, spinal cord injury, or Parkinson's disease.

How to treat retrograde ejaculation

If you aren't trying for a baby, retrograde ejaculation usually isn't anything to worry about, though it's worth seeing your doctor to rule out other conditions.

If you do want to father a child, there are options. If medication is the cause, your GP may be able to prescribe an alternative. Don't stop taking prescribed medication until you're told it's safe. Pseudoephedrine, a decongestant, has been found to help when retrograde ejaculation is caused by diabetes or surgery.² If treatment isn't possible, semen can be collected from urine for artificial insemination or IVF.

Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation are the two most common male sexual health problems, and they often turn up together.^1,2

They aren't the same thing. Premature ejaculation is about timing; erectile dysfunction is about getting or keeping an erection. But they can feed each other in a cycle. Around a third of men with one condition also have the other.⁵ If you worry about losing your erection, you may rush and finish too soon. If you try to hold back, you may lose the erection instead. The anxiety that follows can make both worse.⁵

What is erectile dysfunction?

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is the ongoing inability to get or keep an erection firm enough for satisfying sex.⁶ It can happen as a one-off, for example, after a heavy night of drinking, or repeatedly. Persistent ED can be a sign of an underlying condition such as high cholesterol or low testosterone, so it's worth checking. You can screen for common physical causes at home with a Complete Sexual Performance Blood Test.

What causes erectile dysfunction?

An erection relies on psychology, nerves, blood flow, and hormones working together. A problem with any of them can cause ED:

• Psychological: ED is notably more common in men with depression, with one review finding a 39% higher risk, and the same applies to anxiety.⁷ Relationship worries, body image, and performance anxiety all play a part.

• Nerve signalling: Damage to the nerves around the penis, for example after a prostatectomy, can interrupt the signals that trigger an erection.

• Blood flow: An erection depends on good blood flow. Conditions such as diabetes and high cholesterol can restrict it. ED medications like sildenafil, tadalafil, and Viagra Connect work by improving blood flow.

• Hormones: Low testosterone is linked to lower libido and ED, and testosterone naturally declines with age. A blood test can measure your levels.

How to treat erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation

Treatment depends on the cause, and when ED and PE occur together it often makes sense to treat the ED first.⁴

For ED, the standard first-line medications are sildenafil, tadalafil, and Viagra Connect. A longer-term solution is Tadalafil Daily which is a low dose medication taken once everyday. If a physical cause isn't clear, a Complete Sexual Performance Blood Test and a chat with a clinician can help. Where the cause is psychological, mindfulness or cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) can help alongside or instead of medication.

For PE, options include dapoxetine, which adjusts serotonin levels to delay ejaculation. Natural methods such as exercise and wearing a condom can help too.

The numan take

There are three types of ejaculation problem: premature, delayed, and retrograde. Premature and delayed ejaculation can be physical or psychological, while retrograde ejaculation is physical. Ejaculation problems can also overlap with erectile dysfunction. Whatever you're dealing with, getting to the root cause is the key to finding the treatment that works for you. Always read the patient information leaflet before taking any medication.

References

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